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bullied:

90% of the contacts in my phone are useless.

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Source: bullied

    • #I thought it was just me
    • #they're all either:
    • #A. people I hate now
    • #B. people I don't know well enough to actually call/text
    • #or C. people who have probably changed their number by now
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[AGGRESSIVELY CARES FOR YOU FROM A DISTANCE BECAUSE I DON’T KNOW HOW TO MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER]

(via gothpunxxx--misandrist)

Source: andyglassismymom

    • #me all the time
    • #but more so because I'm not close enough to most people for it not to be awkward
    • #and I don't know when I'm allowed to start comforting people
    • #so I do nothing
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  • me: im so done
  • me: continues

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Help give Baby Marcus a proper funeral (TW: child murder)

queennubian:

“Baby Marcus, one year old, of Pittsburgh was the victim of a tragic drive by shooting in East Hills on May 21, 2013. Please donate what you can to donate to his family! Every dollar counts! This summer is for you Baby Marcus! “

Please signal boost and make donations here: 

http://www.gofundme.com/30axy0

 

Details about his murder can be found here http://www.wtae.com/news/local/allegheny/1yearold-child-killed-in-east-hills-shooting/-/10927008/20245824/-/item/0/-/98q71a/-/index.html

    • #signal boost
    • #Pittsburgh
    • #donate
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Tales from the Fuckmonster: agender-queer: icanttellyouwhotobe: stillcynicalstilladouche: shorm:...

tuimitchams:

icanttellyouwhotobe:

agender-queer:

icanttellyouwhotobe:

stillcynicalstilladouche:

shorm:

motherfuckingsassmaster:

lord-kitschener:

The easiest way to get a group of Americans to violently turn on each other and fight to the death is to ask them all what carbonated soft drinks are called

The answer, of course, is fucking soda

do you literally want a fight right now

that having been said, it’s definitely ‘pop’

See drew knows their shit

Pretty sure it’s soda

it was this teen fad going on where the cool kids would say soda to try to be random and different but you would get yelled at by your parents if they heard you call it soda because its most definitely pop

I really adore you but you’re wrong

its soda

I say pop, but I don’t care what you call it, as long as you don’t call it “Coke” or “soda pop”.

My grandma, who lives in Mississippi, once asked if I wanted a Coke. I said “Sure.” She came back with a Sprite. I was very confused.

Source: lord-kitschener

    • #it wasn't that big of a deal because I prefer Sprite to Coke
    • #but I imagine other non-southerners who prefer Coke would be enraged in that scenario
    • #why cause all that fuss for no good reason?
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queerandpresentdanger:

anarcho-queer:

NYPD Data Proves White People Are More Likely To Possess Drugs Or A Weapon Than Racial Minorities When Stopped, Yet 84% of Stop & Frisk Victims Are Black/Latino
During the just-concluded trial on the New York Police Department’s stop-and-frisk program, the city argued that officers’ disproportionate targeting of black and Latino New Yorkers was not due to racial profiling but because each stopped individual was doing something suspicious at the time. The data, however, tells a different story: weapons and drugs were more often found on white New Yorkers during stops than on minorities, according to the Public Advocate’s analysis of the NYPD’s 2012 statistics.
White New Yorkers make up a small minority of stop-and-frisks, which were 84 percent black and Latino residents. Despite this much higher number of minorities deemed suspicious by police, the likelihood that stopping an African American would find a weapon was half the likelihood of finding one on a white person.

• The likelihood a stop of an African American New Yorker yielded a weapon was half that of white New Yorkers stopped. The NYPD uncovered a weapon in one out every 49 stops of white New Yorkers. By contrast, it took the Department 71 stops of Latinos and 93 stops of African Americans to find a weapon.
• The likelihood a stop of an African American New Yorker yielded contraband was one-third less than that of white New Yorkers stopped. The NYPD uncovered contraband in one out every 43 stops of white New Yorkers. By contrast, it took the Department 57 stops of Latinos and 61 stops of African Americans to find contraband.

It’s unlikely that the appropriate lesson to take from these findings is that stops of white people should increase because they are more likely to carry weapons and drugs. Rather, they suggest that police are excessively targeting minorities. Officers may be netting more successful stops of white New Yorkers because they are only likely to stop a white person when they actually suspect that person of committing a crime. Considering one officer’s testimony that superiors explicitly directed him to target young black men, minorities are judged by a much more flexible definition of “reasonable suspicion.”
In general, stop-and-frisk has proven to be remarkably ineffective; nearly 89 percent of all stops result in no charges. The city has also had to settle a surging number of civil rights lawsuits against police to the tune of $22 million in one year.

Can we also acknowledge the white privilege of feeling comfortable carrying these things around because you will, statistically, be less likely to be targeted by police and if you are caught your sentencing will, statistically, likely be much lighter?
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queerandpresentdanger:

anarcho-queer:

NYPD Data Proves White People Are More Likely To Possess Drugs Or A Weapon Than Racial Minorities When Stopped, Yet 84% of Stop & Frisk Victims Are Black/Latino

During the just-concluded trial on the New York Police Department’s stop-and-frisk program, the city argued that officers’ disproportionate targeting of black and Latino New Yorkers was not due to racial profiling but because each stopped individual was doing something suspicious at the time. The data, however, tells a different story: weapons and drugs were more often found on white New Yorkers during stops than on minorities, according to the Public Advocate’s analysis of the NYPD’s 2012 statistics.

White New Yorkers make up a small minority of stop-and-frisks, which were 84 percent black and Latino residents. Despite this much higher number of minorities deemed suspicious by police, the likelihood that stopping an African American would find a weapon was half the likelihood of finding one on a white person.

• The likelihood a stop of an African American New Yorker yielded a weapon was half that of white New Yorkers stopped. The NYPD uncovered a weapon in one out every 49 stops of white New Yorkers. By contrast, it took the Department 71 stops of Latinos and 93 stops of African Americans to find a weapon.

• The likelihood a stop of an African American New Yorker yielded contraband was one-third less than that of white New Yorkers stopped. The NYPD uncovered contraband in one out every 43 stops of white New Yorkers. By contrast, it took the Department 57 stops of Latinos and 61 stops of African Americans to find contraband.

It’s unlikely that the appropriate lesson to take from these findings is that stops of white people should increase because they are more likely to carry weapons and drugs. Rather, they suggest that police are excessively targeting minorities. Officers may be netting more successful stops of white New Yorkers because they are only likely to stop a white person when they actually suspect that person of committing a crime. Considering one officer’s testimony that superiors explicitly directed him to target young black men, minorities are judged by a much more flexible definition of “reasonable suspicion.”

In general, stop-and-frisk has proven to be remarkably ineffective; nearly 89 percent of all stops result in no charges. The city has also had to settle a surging number of civil rights lawsuits against police to the tune of $22 million in one year.

Can we also acknowledge the white privilege of feeling comfortable carrying these things around because you will, statistically, be less likely to be targeted by police and if you are caught your sentencing will, statistically, likely be much lighter?

Source: anarcho-queer

    • #racism
    • #white privilege
    • #stop-and-frisk
    • #NYPD
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When a couple gets together and they’re “in love” within a week

(via aspiesforpresident)

maybe they had feelings for each other before they dated?  i dunno, i loved my ex before we even started dating as i’d known her for a while.

(via nothingaboutus-withoutus)

Haha, the post before this on my dash was “you can love someone and just not stay friends”. But yeah, that. This always happens to me, and it’s because I get to know people before I go out with them. Although I also don’t really talk about my personal life with people, so no one would necessarily know I’m in love so early on.

(via nothingaboutus-withoutus)

Source: aspiesforpresident

    • #gif
    • #love
    • #relationships
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hidden-agender:

theslavbarbarian:

ianthe:

hey word nerds!!!
http://etymonline.com/index.php is a thing
it is right up there with phrontistery.info in terms of awesome sites for logophiles 

fuck yes i love this site it’s so useful
not a good resource for old english words though because they don’t use diacritics

Yes yes yes yes this is a good site.
(and one the Tumblr population at large could make good use of considering how easily folk etymologies get spread.)
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hidden-agender:

theslavbarbarian:

ianthe:

hey word nerds!!!

http://etymonline.com/index.php is a thing

it is right up there with phrontistery.info in terms of awesome sites for logophiles 

fuck yes i love this site it’s so useful

not a good resource for old english words though because they don’t use diacritics

Yes yes yes yes this is a good site.

(and one the Tumblr population at large could make good use of considering how easily folk etymologies get spread.)

Source: ianthe

    • #etymology
    • #language
    • #English
    • #linguistics
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I just got an ask about this, so here is my general message to everyone in case I ever get another: I don’t do automatic follow backs. I’ll only follow you if your blog is interesting to me and doesn’t have any uncritical reblogs of problematic stuff. I pretty much only follow the personal blogs of people who are anti-oppression and preferably radical (their blogs may not be all about that, but I have the comfort of knowing they probably aren’t going to be an asshole, and if they are, I unfollow).

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How I exit awkward situations

whatshouldwecallme:

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    • #gif
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Avatar I'm Nai. I'm 24. My pronouns are they/their/them. I swear sometimes, and my blog has a general trigger warning, but I will still use trigger warnings for individual posts/reblogs. I'm grateful for call outs if you feel comfortable and/or have enough spoons to do so, but I try to take responsibility for my own education. I live in the US, so discussions about privilege and oppression on this blog will tend to reflect that because that's what I have experience with.

Stuff about me:

Anarchist
no wave feminist
anti-oppression
queer
FAAB genderqueer
panromantic
gray-A
polyamorous
kinky
vegan
atheist
punk
bipolar
autistic; probably have OCPD
person with ulcerative colitis
survivor of verbal abuse, neglect, and other things that are hard to categorize
survivor of abusive treatment centers for teens who have mental health issues and/or trouble with the law

Ways I am privileged:

White
middle class
conventionally attractive
thin
US citizen by birth
resident of a rich imperialist country ("Western" is too broad)
dyadic
not visibly disabled
people tend to think I'm a cis woman
people sometimes think I'm straight if I'm alone or with my cis male partner
young (depending on the situation, this can be a privilege or an oppression)
adult (on the flip side)
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